From Darkness to Delight: The Danish Secret to Winter Happiness

tea and blanket

The holidays are over; the bleak midwinter has arrived. For some, this time of year triggers seasonal affective disorder, a very real form of depression. But what if we embraced what the Danes call “hygge,” the warm, contented art of cheering up by hunkering down? 

What Is Hygge?

Pronounced “hyoo-guh,” hygge is a Danish word that translates not to a single word in English, but instead to a broad sense of comfort, coziness and well-being in the simple things. A good book, a toasty cup of cocoa, a soft blanket, the glow of candles or a crackling fire…such things move us in fundamental ways that require no great effort, fuss or cost. And they’re the perfect antidote to shorter days and longer nights. (Fun fact: it’s dark roughly 17 hours per day in Denmark in the
winter – no wonder the Danes coined hygge!)

Beyond Cozy: The Science Behind Hygge

Candles and warm blankets aside, hygge is more than an aesthetic. Research in environmental psychology shows that it activates the parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” mode), bringing calm and feelings of safety and peace. Hygge reduces stress through environmental cues that are biologically soothing:

  • Warm light reduces cortisol (the stress hormone) and increases “feel good” hormones such as endorphins, serotonin and dopamine. The result is relaxation and improved mood, especially welcome in the dark days of winter.
  • Soft textures trigger the release of oxytocin, the “bonding hormone” that strengthens feelings of trust, closeness and social connection.
  • Neat, clutter-free spaces reduce the “noise” of cognitive overload and pave the way for experiences of mindfulness and presence.

Rooted in appreciating the simple things in life, hygge also amplifies gratitude and keeps the focus on small positives. In turn, this increases resilience, lowers anxiety and boosts overall happiness.

Bringing Hygge into Your Life

The beauty of hygge is not only its scientifically backed effect on well-being, but its ready accessibility. It’s wonderfully easy to bring that warm, cozy atmosphere into your own space! Here are some stress-free ways to engage all the senses and bring hygge home:

  • Create a nook for one purpose only – simple pleasures, be they reading, knitting, sipping a beverage, enjoying a long chat with a friend, curling up with a beloved pet. De-clutter your special space so that you’re free from distraction and able to be in the moment.
  • Light a warm, gentle lamp in the evening or a candle(s). If you have a fireplace, start a cozy fire.
  • Host an intimate dinner with a friend; prepare comfort foods that satisfy the soul as well as the stomach.
  • Wrap yourself in a warm, soft blanket. From chenille to sherpa, there is a luxurious array of fabrics offering the snuggest “hugs” of hygge. Add some plushy pillows to complete your soft surroundings.
  • Ambient sound makes everyday moments more special. Surround yourself with your favorite music or download sounds of nature for an intimate experience in your own home. 
  • Scent the air with yummy candles, essential oils or incense. Choose comforting aromas such as vanilla, cinnamon or pine – or whatever your pleasure; the choices are endless!
  • Bring the outside in with plants, flowers or wooden accents.
  • Incorporate natural materials like wool, linen, wood or stone for warmth and texture.

Hygge in Small Spaces

Many older adults have downsized from larger homes or have begun the process of doing so. Smaller spaces are perfect for creating hygge because they naturally encourage intimacy, warmth and simplicity. When rooms are cozy and contained, it’s easier to arrange soft lighting, plush textiles and comforting décor in a way that feels inviting rather than overwhelming. Small spaces also reduce visual clutter, allowing each candle, blanket or plant to have a meaningful impact on the atmosphere.

Hygge in Community Living

Perhaps even more than comfort or atmosphere, hygge is ultimately about meaningful connection with others. Yet as we grow older, maintaining those vital social bonds can become challenging, as friends move away or loved ones pass on. That’s where living in a thoughtfully designed, close-knit community like Lathrop makes all the difference. Here, neighbors become friends, shared spaces foster conversation and everyday moments become opportunities to nurture connection, warmth and a true sense of belonging.


Cozy up to Lathrop.